October 1, 2022
How to give a blowjob

How To Give a Blowjob: 11 Tips for Giving Amazing Head

In surveys of men, the blow job is at the top of the list of sex preferences. When you know how, skilled fellatio can turn the toughest guy into wax in your hands. Here are the best blow job tips and tricks!

We’ll explain the basics of the perfect blow job, as well as a few small but subtle tricks you can use to bring your heart’s man to climax. Sometimes a successful blowjob requires just a little bit of imagination.

Here are 11 tips for the best blow job he’s ever had. Just follow our instructions and you can be sure that you will take your lover to the 7th heaven…

One thing first: Don’t feel obligated to do anything. If you don’t think oral sex or a blow job is hot, don’t do it. You don’t have to do anything you don’t like yourself. Sex is only good if it’s fun for both of you.

1. Cue, please!

For the perfect blow job: sucking, licking and stroking are desired. It’s best to alternate gentle tongue play with harder lip action. Play around his glans with your tongue, suck gently, suck a little harder, let your lips and tongue be used to the full!

Pay special attention to the frenulum, the frenulum that connects the foreskin of the penis to the underside of the glans, and caress this sensitive spot devotedly.

If you always keep an eye on your reaction, you will immediately see what gives you the most pleasure. If you like it, let your partner gently guide you by taking your head in his hands and helping to set the pace.

Or you can make him completely powerless by handcuffing him to the bed. Being completely at the mercy of you and your mouth can be an incredible turn-on.

2. Have fun with it!

The most important rule for a successful blow job: Have fun bringing him to climax! Look deep into his eyes while tenderly pampering him and show him how much his lust turns you on by moaning softly. That makes him twice as hot, I promise!

3. Handball allowed!

From blow job to hand job: It’s not just your lips and tongue that are needed for a blow job, because while you’re gently pleasuring his penis with your mouth, your hands can go exploring. Let your hands gently cup his testicles, run your fingers over his perineum and gently stimulate his anal area.

You may not have known this, but the perineal and anal areas are erogenous zones in men. If you give your partner double the pleasure in this way, you’re guaranteed to give him double, if not triple or quadruple the excitement… You don’t really know how to go about it? Then here are some tips for the perfect handjob!

4. Ice cream

Let his lust melt in your mouth! Imagine creamy ice cream that slowly but surely begins to melt. Lick his best part with devotion, paying special attention to the most sensitive parts. Run your wet tongue around the frenulum (the frenulum on the underside of the glans) and he will melt under your caresses…

5. A matter of taste

Another great tip to give him even more ooooh moments during a blow job: Flavoured lube. Simply apply it to his best piece and then lick it off with relish. Yummy! The flavours range from strawberry and cherry to melon, guarana and vanilla. Just give it a try!

6. Double happiness

Let him feel twice: Close your lips around his best piece and slide up and down, sometimes with firm, sometimes with gentle lip pressure. And so that he can hardly stand the pleasure, now add your hands and let them glide over his penis in the same rhythm …

7. Snake dance

Take his penis in both hands and hold it in front of your puckered lips. The sight alone will send an expectant shiver down his spine. Now put the tip of your tongue against his glans and let your tongue dance around the tip, sometimes fast, sometimes very slowly…

8. Depth desired?

For many men, deep throat, where the penis disappears completely into the mouth, is certainly a special attraction. But what good is that if this rather intense blow job triggers a gag reflex in you? The fact is: most of the nerve endings are located on the glans of the man’s penis. And if you know how to pamper these sensitive areas artfully, you don’t have to worry about whether the blow job goes deep enough or not.

Otherwise, a change of position helps for more depth: lie on your back and let your head hang over the edge of the bed. This way he can plunge his penis in deep … But this is a real matter of trust between the two of you.

9. With peppermint you are my prince!

For the ultimate kick during a blow job, you can rely on little tools from the kitchen. Sweeten your fellatio by dripping a blob of chocolate sauce on his glans, which you then lick off with relish.

The special pleasure is playing with heat and cold. A sip of hot peppermint tea makes his penis feel warm in your mouth, then suddenly refreshingly cool from the mint. You can intensify the effect by alternately drinking hot tea and sucking an ice cube.

10. Wet, wet, wet

The rule for blow jobs is: the wetter, the more intense: don’t hold back your saliva flow! Just like with “normal” sex, it should be really nice and slippery.

11. Final Countdown

When you feel that he can hardly stand it any longer, you can go one better with your blow job skills and almost drive him out of his mind with a little trick:

Enclose his best piece tightly with your lips and let it plunge deep into your oral cavity. Press the glans against your palate and pull the air out of your mouth to create a vacuum. If you now play around the tip of his glans and the frenulum with quick movements of your tongue, he won’t be able to contain himself.

Emily J. Gillette

Hi. I'm Emily. I help women own, love and enjoy their lives - and their bodies. I have been involved in education, social science and politics for the last 16 years.

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